Outgoing
People see you in a single role and assume that you are the same in all the corners of your life. Nobody is the same all the time.
While nobody would say I am shy, I have my moments of wanting to avoid or dodge attention. The one that comes to mind was when we moved into our current house. We took the NewEarth series of 6 books and donated them to the local library. I barely managed to walk in, set the bag of books down and had to force myself to give them to a person. I can be bold in many settings and about many things, but my books, my stories are different. Good, bad, selling or not, my writing holds pieces of me. It matters.