Reluctant
Can you imagine the stress of trying to find a clan where you belong? Awandering must be like an endless house hunting trip, only not only are you choosing the house, neighborhood, school and atmosphere, but neighbors as well. Like most people I have moved around, had many houses, experienced many neighbors and found many neighborhoods acceptable. But if I had to find the right one, the right fit for me, I would find that search very stressful.